Why a Vow Renewal Might Be the Best Celebration You Haven’t Considered

A vow renewal isn’t about “re-doing” your wedding. It’s about pausing, looking at the life you’ve built together, and saying: “I’d still choose you.” It’s also an excellent excuse for a party without the stress of anyone arguing over the seating plan.

1. Mark a Milestone

Big anniversaries (10, 20, 25 years) are popular times, but honestly, any milestone works. Sometimes you don’t need a reason other than “we made it, and we want to celebrate.”

2. Involve Family and Friends

Unlike weddings, vow renewals are often more relaxed — which makes it a great opportunity to include your kids, grandkids, or close friends in the ceremony.

3. Keep It Personal

No rules, no pressure. Some couples keep it short and simple; others go big. The beauty is in shaping the ceremony to match your story now — not what it was years ago.

4. Update Your Vows

Life changes. Your vows can too. You might keep a few of the originals, or write new ones that reflect where you are now (and the in-jokes only the two of you understand).

5. Enjoy the Freedom

No legal paperwork, no strict structure. Just a chance to reflect, reconnect, and raise a glass to what you’ve built together.

A vow renewal is less about reliving the past and more about celebrating the present — with a ceremony that feels real, heartfelt, and perfectly yours. If you’re planning a vow renewal in Sydney, I’d love to help you create a ceremony that reflects your journey, your humour, and your promises for the years ahead.