Memorials and Funerals: A Celebrant’s Guide to Personal, Meaningful Farewells
In recent years, there’s been a noticeable shift in how families approach memorials and funerals. While traditional services still hold value, more people are embracing personalised memorial ceremonies that reflect the unique life being remembered.
As a funeral celebrant, I often hear families say: “We want the ceremony to feel like them.” That simple statement sums it up. A good farewell isn’t about following rigid traditions—it’s about creating space for memories, stories, and a sense of connection.
Why Personalised Memorials Are Growing in 2025
Authenticity — Families want ceremonies that reflect the person’s personality, passions, and quirks.
Flexibility — A memorial service can be held anywhere: a chapel, a garden, a community hall, even the beach.
Inclusion — Non-religious funerals and memorials welcome people of all faiths and backgrounds.
Healing — Sharing stories and rituals helps families grieve together and celebrate a life well-lived.
Ideas for a Meaningful Memorial or Funeral
Play their favourite music instead of traditional hymns.
Include a “story-sharing” moment, where friends and family contribute memories.
Use symbolic gestures—like lighting candles or planting a tree in their honour.
Create a memory table with photos, keepsakes, and items that capture their spirit.
The Role of a Funeral Celebrant
A funeral celebrant helps guide families through the process of planning a farewell, making sure the ceremony feels supportive, respectful, and personal. From writing a eulogy to suggesting rituals, my role is to take the stress off families so they can focus on remembering.
A memorial doesn’t have to be sombre from start to finish—it can include warmth, humour, and moments that truly capture the person’s essence. After all, the best goodbyes are those that leave us remembering not just how someone died, but how they lived.
Planning a Memorial or Farewell?
Saying goodbye is never easy, but a thoughtful ceremony can bring comfort and connection. As a celebrant, I work with families to create memorials and funerals that are genuine, respectful, and shaped by the stories that matter most.