Readings and Poems for a Wedding Ceremony — Ideas to Inspire Your Day

When it comes to planning a wedding ceremony, one of the most common questions couples ask is: “Should we include a reading—and if so, which one?” The beauty is, there are no rules. A reading can set the tone, add a personal touch, and give guests a glimpse of your love story.

Whether you’re after something timeless, modern, light-hearted, or deeply romantic, there are plenty of beautiful options to choose from. Here are some ideas to help you find the words that feel right for your ceremony.

1. Romantic & Timeless Readings

Perfect for couples who love a touch of classic poetry and romance.

  • Sonnet 116 by William Shakespeare (“Let me not to the marriage of true minds…”)

  • How Do I Love Thee? by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

  • I Carry Your Heart With Me by E. E. Cummings

  • Union by Robert Fulghum

  • To Love Is Not to Possess by James Kavanaugh

2. Modern & Relatable Readings

Ideal if you want warmth without the formality.

  • The Bridge Across Forever by Richard Bach

  • The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams (the part about becoming “real”)

  • Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis de Bernières (“Love is a temporary madness…”)

  • The Amber Spyglass by Philip Pullman (“I will love you forever; whatever happens…”)

  • A Lovely Love Story by Edward Monkton (the whimsical dinosaur tale).

3. Fun & Light-Hearted Readings

For couples who want their ceremony to include some laughs.

  • He Never Leaves the Seat Up by Pam Ayres

  • Foxtrot From a Play by W. H. Auden

  • Yes, I’ll Marry You My Dear by Pam Ayres

  • Excerpt from Winnie the Pooh by A. A. Milne (“If you live to be a hundred…”)

  • “An Extract from The Notebook” by Nicholas Sparks (equal parts touching and fun).

4. Poems with Heart

Poems that cut straight to the soul.

  • Love’s Philosophy by Percy Bysshe Shelley

  • Sonnet XVII by Pablo Neruda

  • Somewhere I Have Never Travelled by E. E. Cummings

  • Touched by an Angel by Maya Angelou

  • The One by Cheryl Barclay

5. Cultural & Spiritual Readings

Beautiful if you want to honour heritage or add a sense of blessing.

  • Irish Blessing (“May the road rise to meet you…”)

  • Apache Wedding Blessing (adaptable for non-religious ceremonies too).

  • Extracts from Rumi (timeless poetry on love and union).

  • Traditional Jewish Seven Blessings (Sheva Brachot).

  • Maori or Aboriginal blessings (with cultural respect and permission).

6. Quotes & Short Readings

Sometimes, a simple quote says more than pages of poetry.

  • “You are my today and all of my tomorrows.” — Leo Christopher

  • “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours.” — Maya Angelou

  • “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” — Emily Brontë

  • “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin

  • Lyrics from a favourite song (Paul Kelly, The Beatles, Adele—no judgment).

Tips for Choosing the Right Reading

  • Match your personalities — If you’re playful, go for humour. If you’re sentimental, a poem or novel extract might be perfect.

  • Think of your guests — What do you want them to feel during your ceremony?

  • Keep it balanced — One or two readings are usually enough; too many can feel like storytime.

  • Ask someone special to read — Involving a family member or friend adds extra meaning.

As a wedding celebrant, I often help couples choose readings that flow with their vows and stories. The right words can make the ceremony truly unforgettable.

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